Author: Verneda Lights

Trust Is Earned. Whom Do You Trust?

Trust is something that your mind searches out and your instincts test and confirm. You should pay attention when you have a sense of danger. When you become hyper alert and expand your visual attention to what’s before, behind, and…

Remember: Pride Comes Before a Fall

Picture of peacock, a symbol of pride.

Have you ever done something terribly wrong because of pride? Did a faint whisper say: “Stop! Don’t do that?” Did the threat of shame make your cheeks burn? But. The skeletal grip of pride tightened like a boa constrictor every time you…

What Is the Cost of Your Sacrifice?

Woke up this early Spring morning, thinking about sacrifice. By definition, sacrifice costs. Cost means suffering, a little or a lot. Suffering often comes with pain. It leaves wounds and scars us. Because sacrifice is costly, painful, and wounding, we…

The Day My Mother (Almost) Died

It is Thankful Tuesday, and the crisp autumn chill is a gentle reminder of season’s change. These last few weeks were dangerous and difficult times for my family. Even though the hurricane brought floods and destruction throughout the state, the…

Created in Christ to Do Good Works

For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. Ephesians 2:10 NIV Think you’re nothing special? Think again. You are amazing. You are precious. Here are just…

Don’t Wear Yourself Out

Cross-section between stress and relaxation.

Exodus 18:18 You and these people who come to you will only wear yourselves out. The work is too heavy for you; you cannot handle it alone. Several months ago, I wrote a blog post about how Moses, (a work-a-holic…

Don’t Be Afraid of Terror

Sunday mornings are warm, sepia-toned memories. Our getting-ready-for-Sunday-School ritual ran like clock work with 7 kids spinning in their own orbit yet never getting in anyone’s way. Taking curlers out of my hair, I’d sit and listen to the Sunday…

Encourage & Build One Another

Friends encourage one another.

I’m so grateful for technology, because it makes it easy to say kind words or donate money that helps someone who’s down, in dire straits, or championing a worthy cause. Lies and deceit are also made easier on the ‘Net, but…